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Hooray for Barbie! |
by Diane Singer |
I must admit that I smiled a bit when I read the news that Mattel, which makes Barbie dolls, has won its copyright infringement lawsuit against the maker of Bratz dolls.
Yes, I'm familiar with all the brouhaha over the unrealistic beauty standards implied by Barbie's fabulous face and figure. But I have very fond memories of playing with one of the earliest Barbie dolls (I still have her), mainly learning to make her clothes using fabric scraps from my mother's various sewing projects. I gave my daughter Barbie dolls when she was growing up, and I've purchased several for my granddaughters.
I have not, however, bought any of the wildly popular Bratz dolls. Why not? Because they're freaky-looking, they're dressed like prostitutes, and they have a name that implies that being a brat is somehow a worthy goal. Needless to say, I won't be shedding any tears over their demise -- though I'm sure some savvy doll collectors will snatch up all the available Bratz dolls and make a pile of money.
(Image © Competitive Intelligence)
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A Little Self-Discipline, Please |
by Kim Moreland |
Thinking about the problems of pornography and sexual addictions that are plaguing nations worldwide, like those I described earlier, I thought it appropriate to post this fable by Aesop.
The Flies and the Honey Pot
A jar of honey chanced to spill
Its contents on the windowsill
In many a viscous pool and rill.
The flies, attracted by the sweet,
Began so greedily to eat,
They smeared their fragile wings and feet.
With many a twitch and pull in vain
They gasped to get away again,
And died in aromatic pain.
O foolish creatures that destroy
Themselves for transitory joy.
Here's a thought: instead of buying video games for Christmas, go out and buy books like William Bennett's The Book of Virtues: A Treasury of Great Moral Stories. Your kids might just learn something that would save them a lifetime of pain.
And You Thought It Was Just a Problem for Westerners |
by Kim Moreland |
Pornography's wretched tentacles have reached into the far corners of the world. India's children are suffering from hyper-sexualization because of the consumption of pornography. As a result, they're becoming addicted to sex.
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Posting will be light (but not totally nonexistent) on Thursday and Friday. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.
Chuck Colson on ’Twilight’ |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
The other day, commenter JerryH asked if Chuck Colson had done a BreakPoint commentary on the Twilight movie. He has now. A sample:
The movie Twilight made a staggering $70.6 million at the box office in its opening weekend. To give you some perspective on that, that’s the fourth highest opening weekend for a movie this year. The film website Box Office Mojo reports, “According to distributor Summit Entertainment’s exit polling, 75 percent of Twilight’s audience was female and 55 percent was under 25 years old.”
So chances are if you have a teen or preteen daughter, she’s already seen Twilight. And if she hasn’t, she will want to. That raises some questions for parents: What kind of values is this movie promoting? And how should I talk to my daughter about them?
(Image © Summit Entertainment)
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’Boston Legal’s’ Take on Abortion |
by Diane Singer |
I don't watch Boston Legal, but I understand from this article that they recently did a show about abortion that offered a more balanced view than one usually sees on TV. Did anyone catch this episode? Any comments if you did?
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Gardasil a Must--or Maybe Not |
by Kim Moreland |
Hopefully cooler heads will prevail in the quest to make Gardasil vaccination of girls mandatory. Find out what some of them are saying.
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Teach your children well |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
I may be stretching it a bit here. But it seems to me all too likely that kids who bully and insult a classmate for wearing a "McCain Girl" T-shirt -- kids who were backed up by at least one teacher -- are the kind of people who grow up to help spread the "Republicans are stoooopid!" meme throughout the culture. (First link via Hot Air.)
(I'm not objecting to anyone's pointing out that McCain did best with less educated voters. That's just a fact. What I'm objecting to is the refusal to look beyond the T-shirts and slogans -- which political groupies of all stripes tend to use -- and examine conservative policy positions to see if there are just might be an intelligent philosophy behind them. Not to mention the use of terms like "white trash" and "idiocy" to describe a group of voters that Democrats once relied on, now that they're not quite as reliably Democratic anymore.)
I'm not yet a parent, and therefore can't speak from experience, but I have to say I think James Lileks has the right idea about teaching children respect and tolerance:
. . . Natalie had to write an apology letter for laughing in class. She was driven to the edge of . . . hilarity by a classmate’s decision to embellish his art project – a turkey – with the head of Obama. He got in trouble, too. I explained to her that this was disrespectful to the teacher and the President-Elect, and she understood. I have this ridiculous hope that if we always speak of her teacher and the President with respect in the house, that’ll build some sort of innate respect for the institutions that survive and transcend the transitory occupants. It was always President Bush in our house, and it will always be President Obama.
I wish there were more parents like him, on both sides. Our cultural climate might be very different.
(Image © Nuccio DiNuzzo for the Chicago Tribune)
WWOD? |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
When Principal Kim Sims of Chicago's Bouchet Math and Science Academy used to talk to kids about misbehavior, one favorite line was, "How would your parents feel about this?''
But these days, Sims is using another approach.
"I ask them, 'How do you think Barack Obama would feel about this?' " Sims said.
Rosalind Rossi, "'Just like us,'" The Chicago Sun-Times, November 10 (via Media Blog)
Pray for the persecuted |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
Yesterday was the International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted Church, with a special focus on the "children of the persecuted Church." Jubilee Campaign has sent around this e-mail:
The International Day of Prayer for the Persecuted on Sunday, November 9 marked the kickoff of our week long focus on praying for the persecuted church. Jubilee Campaign has selected India, Pakistan, North Korea, Uzbekistan, and Iran as countries of concern to pray for this week. We will be sending a detailed description of one country each day this week and ask you to pray for the persecuted there and for the kingdom of God to continue expanding in the midst of trial. Thank you for your support.
Corruption can only be undone by truth and freedom only obtained by truth. Character is defined by the courage to provide truth in the face of adversity, no matter what the cost.
Unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be any link to this release online, but you can sign up for the Jubilee Campaign's e-mails here.
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As a man watcheth, so he is |
by Angelise Anderson |
Groundbreaking research suggests that pregnancy rates are much higher among teens who watch a lot of TV with sexual dialog and behavior, compared with those who have tamer viewing tastes.
No. Really? I guess it's true that as man a man thinketh, so he is. Or as he watches, so he becomes.
Though it seems apparent that the link of sex-infused TV images would be inherently tied to teen pregnancies, research is now backing up this assumption. The Associated Press reports that "the new study was the first to link viewing habits with teen pregnancy." Previously, researchers had found that watching sex on TV influences teens to have sex at an earlier age, but this new study, according to behavioral scientist Andita Chandra of Rand Corp., reports that "teens who watched the raciest shows were twice as likely to become pregnant over the next three years" as those who didn't.
The study was based on the answers of 2,003 12-to 17-year old girls and boys nationwide. Read more about it here.
Missing link |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
I have a 6-month-old daughter and she will be vaccinated [for HPV] once she is old enough. I cannot imagine thinking that preserving her virginity or preserving some set of expectations about her sexual behavior would be more important to me than protecting her.
"Melissa," letter to "The Checkup" feature in the Washington Post Health section, October 28
I respect Melissa's concern for her daughter, but did it truly never occur to her that there might be some sort of connection between sexual standards and sexual health?
That was easy |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
Question just asked on a Fox News commercial: "Why do kids keep texting naked pictures of themselves?"
Because no one ever taught them a good reason not to, would be my guess.
Why Johnny won’t read |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
The Weekly Standard has a very good piece about the decline in boys' reading habits. Unfortunately, it's subscriber-only. It's in the current issue, though, so you can pick up a copy at a bookstore or newsstand. In the meantime, an excerpt:
Boys prefer a definitely un-sensitive Conan the Barbarian, or G.I. Joe, or Huckleberry Finn, and without regard to his Indo-European heritage, to a heroine whose life story involves being a "survivor" after bearing her father's baby at age 12, and then becoming pregnant by him again at age 16. This is the story of Precious Jones in Push, a book recommended on the American Library Association's website for young adult readers as one of the 25 "Outstanding Books for the College Bound." It involves a "dedicated teacher, and classmates who understand" at an alternative school. Another book, My Heartbeat, has this enticing blurb: "Can Ellen get the boy who loves her brother?"
Of the 25 books on this list, 18 are novels or memoirs. The protagonists in 14 of these are female and, overwhelmingly, the accompanying blurbs describe such plots involving conflicts of a personal nature, with emotional resolutions. One of the few books that feature male protagonists, Forgotten Fire, is described as a "touching and heart-wrenching portrait of pain and triumph" during the Armenian Genocide while Postcards from No Man's Land is about 17-year-old Jacob's "self-discovery."
No books on this list offer soldiers, male athletes, or adventurers.
Syllabi of classes in library science, linked on the ALA's web page, reveal what future librarians study. At the University of Iowa, one class, "Trends and Issues in Literature for Young Adults," includes such required reading for librarians-in-training as: Born Confused; Rainbow Boys; how i live now; Stoner & Spaz; Vegan, Virgin, Valentine. And while the course description acknowledges a focus on the challenges of contemporary culture, some of these kinds of books--like the explicitly homoerotic play Angels in America, assigned to students at a high school in Illinois, and Prep, a coming-of-age novel assigned to 12-year-olds in California--have made headlines recently.
(Image courtesy of The Children's Book Consultancy)
Zack, Miri and the Pornification of our Culture |
by Catherine Larson |
In glancing through upcoming movie titles earlier this year, I saw the title Zack and Miri Make a Porno. My stomach turned. I read the description of this mainstream, coming-to-a-theater-near-you movie:
Zack and Miri are two lifelong friends who are deep in debt and enlist the help of their friends to make a porno movie for some quick cash. But as everybody starts "doing" everybody, Zack and Miri realize that they may have more feelings for each other than they previously thought.
Aww... isn't that sweet? Bleh. It's enough to make you want to spew your lunch. What makes me even sicker is thinking about the teens who will go see this movie.
I'm not alone, though, in lamenting the pornification of our culture. Thankfully, other voices are joining the chorus that says enough is enough, especially when it comes to our kids.
This week Newsweek turns an eye to the trend:
Continue reading "Zack, Miri and the Pornification of our Culture" »
Unclear on the concept |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
Some parents in and around Nebraska are abusing the state's new "safe haven" law: Instead of leaving infants they can't care for in a safe environment, they're getting rid of their teenagers! Look, we all know kids can be aggravating, but it should be obvious that this is not the way to handle it.
Roberto was right |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
Roberto received some criticism a while back for his complaints about recent winners of the Newbery Medal for children's literature. While we appreciated the thoughtful and often passionate responses from our readers, I still thought Roberto had a good point. Now he's got some backup from none other than the School Library Journal:
Right before the announcement of this year’s Newbery winner, I had two surprising encounters. First, a librarian at my local public library confessed that she had no interest in learning “what unreadable Newbery the committee was going to foist on us this year.” Then, a few weeks later at an education conference, I was startled to hear several teachers and media specialists admit they hadn’t bought a copy of the Newbery winner for the last few years. Why? “They don’t appeal to our children,” they explained patiently. . . .
. . . I spent the last few months talking to more than 100 people—including media specialists, children’s librarians, teachers, and booksellers—in 15 states across the country. Although most spoke on the condition of anonymity, all of them were eager for me to share their insights. Here’s the gist of what I learned.
Although some public librarians can’t afford to buy more than a single copy of the Newbery, they say the last four winners—Kira-Kira (S & S, 2004), Criss Cross (Greenwillow, 2005), The Higher Power of Lucky (S & S, 2006), and Good Masters! Sweet Ladies! (Candlewick, 2007)—have been particularly disappointing. “I think I know books, but because of the subject matter, these wouldn’t be the ones I’d naturally choose to introduce to my kids,” said a children’s librarian. “Possibly the committee has too many 'experts’ on it, and not enough working, small-town public librarians.”
School librarians say they simply don’t have enough money to spend on books that kids won’t find interesting—and in their opinion, that category includes most of this century’s Newbery winners.
The odor of censorship |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
Philip Pullman of His Dark Materials fame is smelling "the rank stench of oppression" that rises whenever those religious folks try to ban books. I wonder what this story smells like to him.
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More messianism |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
I didn't post this video earlier because I thought at first that it just might be a fake. It's not. And unlike the video of the kids singing the praise anthem to Obama, this video really was made on school grounds, earning a teacher a suspension. (H/T Confederate Yankee)
They don’t call him the little messiah for nothing |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
The obvious tags for this post are "arts & media," "politics & government," and "youth issues," but I have a strong feeling I should use "religion & society" as well. (Via Dirty Harry's Place)
Update: After a day of appalled reactions from conservatives and liberals alike, the video was made "private" on YouTube and pulled from its page at MyBarackObama.com. I'm shocked, shocked. However, some far-sighted soul grabbed it and reposted it, so here it is again. If you want to see it, do it quickly, before it gets pulled again. In the meantime, those who just yesterday were proudly announcing that Jeff Zucker had had a hand in making the video are now spinning like a top: "Nooo, not that Jeff Zucker! Not the head of NBC! How could you even think that! Ha ha ha! It was another Jeff Zucker who lives in California and has access to professional video equipment!" Even if that's true, and it may be, they sure weren't in a hurry to announce it before.
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’It takes a real man to still sleep with his bunny’ |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
No big important Christian worldview point here -- at least, not from me. Our endlessly creative and resourceful readers may be able to find one. But I'm just posting this because it's adorable.
I considered heading it "Man Post," but Allen would hunt me down without mercy if I violated his brand integrity so shamelessly.
(Image © Karen Yudelson Sandler)
Yakety yak |
by Gina Dalfonzo |
From high school all the way down to the cradle, kids are doing more communicating (or in some cases, having more communicating done on their behalf) than ever before. But that may not be the best thing for them.
(Image © Hadley Hooper for the New York Times)
’Let Them Know They’re Enough’ |
by CLH |
Just another note about the back-to-school night I attended: The helicopter parents were there in force, and the teachers knew it. My daughter's extended language arts teacher handled it beautifully.
"Extended" means "advanced" -- the higher level version of the class. So naturally, it's a class that includes many, let's say, "intimately involved" parents. Which is good! Really. But there's a line between involved and overbearing. I have to watch where my toe's going. (I'm actually very pleasantly surprised about my daughter getting into the extended language arts class, as she had always been a stronger math mind. But math at her school is another beef for another day; I may find myself tutoring/supplementing on the weekend, so she's not bored.)
But all that to say, this is a class where the students are precocious, and some parents may be obnoxious. God bless 'em . . .
So, my daughter's teacher, Mrs. P., relayed a story to illustrate a point. She said when she first became pregnant, she didn't think, "I hope I have the next president" or "I hope I have the next Olympic gold-medal winner." She said, "I hope that he's healthy -- just that he's healthy." And then "if he ties his shoe, that's a bonus," and "if he graduates high school, that's a bonus." But just that he is, she said, "that's enough. He is enough just as he is, however he is." This is the point where I got a little verklempt.
She noted how she came from Fairfax County, Va., where if you didn't letter/pin in three sports and get nothing but A's, you weren't doing something right; you weren't enough. Meanwhile her mom always let her know she was enough; she loved her as she was, and it made all the difference in Mrs. P's life. She said that she knew the types of students in this class pushed themselves hard. "If they miss a homework assignment, they're in tears," she said. "They don't know if it will be all right."
Mrs. P. then looked at the parents and respectfully asked us always "to let them know that they're enough," no matter what. Wise words.
Civic Education |
by CLH |
I just attended my daughter's middle-school back-to-school night, and one thing in particular stood out to me: Many of the teachers would be working the presidential election into their classes.
Her civics class, of course, would be talking about the electoral process. They plan to hold a mock election as well, if possible. Her science class will take a look at both major parties' platforms on the environment, and after the election "make predictions" on what those policies could do to the planet in the long run. And even her language arts class includes the theme of "change" as it relates to the nation -- we know how loaded a term that is in this election (another grade will look at change on the personal level, while a higher grade will focus on the notion on a global level).
All that to say, more than any other year of late, fellow parents, this is a critical one to get involved in your children's education and talk pointedly to them about what's going on in our country this fall -- to talk about the issues being debated, the process of electing a president and other elected officials, and the importance of exercising our right to vote.
They will hear a lot of different viewpoints bouncing around in their classrooms -- particularly, if they're in a public school -- and rather than tell them to "tune out," I'd encourage you to help them decipher the views and the motivations behind them. Teach them why Christians believe what they believe about things like the sanctity of human life and the importance of caring for the poor. What a great year for worldview education. And definitely plan to bring them with you to the voting booth if you can. It's an empowering image that will stick in their memories.
(Image © Johnson County, Kansas, Election Office)
Picture of the Day |
by Jason Bruce |
And we wonder why people don’t like Christians. There’s got to be a better way for this church to send "a loving warning to teens."
(Image courtesy of Tampabays10.com)
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Abstinence Education |
by Regis Nicoll |
Ever since Bristol Palin's pregnancy was made public, Planned Parenthood sycophants have been snickering (profanity in comments), "See how good abstinence education works?" That's a good sound bite, but the plain truth is that NO education is 100% effective in changing human behavior. (Also, their facts are not quite accurate.)
Consider obesity. Today we have more books, articles, and television programs about diet, exercise and healthy living than at any other time in history and, yet, obesity is at its highest level ever. Behavior modification is not about information; it's about transformation...of the way we think, act, and live.
Admittedly, abstinence education is not perfect, as confirmed by any number of unwed mothers who had received the "right" information. That said, an abstinent lifestyle is the ONLY one that prevents unwanted pregnancies and STDs, with all of their attendant emotional and socio-economic problems, with a 100% effectiveness.
Thus, the challenge for abstinence educators is how to make abstinence reach the "tipping point" at which knowledge shapes lifestyle.
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Re: Tyra Goes Transgender |
by Jason Bruce |
My post on the transgendered contestant on America's Next Top Model has stirred up quite a debate. But what’s still clear is that homosexual and transgender practices are not consistent with Biblical principles.
What’s also true and what’s important to remember is that there’s no special punishment for homosexuals or the transgendered. I am not more righteous than they or anyone else. “All have sinned and fall short of glory of God (Rom. 3:23).” Their struggles with the same sex are no different from my own struggles with the opposite sex.
I have sincere friendships with some gays and ex-gays, and it doesn't matter to me whether a homosexual friend is out of the closet or not. What I am concerned about, going back to my original post, is the promotion of changing one's sexual identity on a TV show popular with young girls and accessible to families with young kids. I have no intention of imposing a judgment on the contestant or anyone else, only of questioning the show's intention to add a character who I think producers know has no chance of winning the modeling competition but who is meant to attract higher ratings at the expense of alienating people with traditional and Biblical values.
(Image © CW)
The Drinking Age |
by CLH |
This debate keeps going on and on: the issue of underage drinking, the risks—and tragedies, even deaths—associated with binging, and the role of the legal drinking age. Just in time for another season of frat parties and football games, the debate has rolled around again.
In yesterday's Washington Post on the front page is a story titled “Lower Drinking Age Is Criticized.” An excerpt:
On the face of it, the notion seems counterintuitive, but to the presidents of some of the nation’s most prestigious colleges, it makes a lot of sense: Lowering the legal drinking age might get students to drink less. . . .
As parents ship their children off to college this month, university officials are bracing for a round of alcohol-fueled parties and binge drinking. They say they have tried banning keggers and have promoted alcohol counseling, but problems persist. It’s time for a new approach, they say.
In addition to the Dickinson president, academic leaders involved in the effort include those of Duke University and Dartmouth College as well as several Washington area schools, such as the University of Maryland and Johns Hopkins University. Their effort, the Amethyst Initiative, proposes to reopen a national discussion on an issue that hasn’t been seriously debated in three decades.
Amid the backlash, the 115 university leaders in the group said their proposal is being distorted. They said that they are not necessarily advocating that the age be lowered but that the issue needs to be part of the debate because alcohol abuse at colleges has gotten so bad.
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